Something I’ve learned over the last 5 years of 2 bouts with cancer,torn Achilles,a kidney stone so large they had to go into the kidney to get it,corrective eye surgery(multi focal lens implants) and losing both parents all while being single
NEVER PLAY GAMES WITH A MAN WHO ISN’T AFRAID TO BE ALONE. He’s already survived nights without someone to hold him, days without a call, and seasons with no support. He’s learned to wipe his own tears, fix his own problems, and protect his PEACE. He doesn’t settle for breadcrumbs, mixed signals, or half hearted love. He knows being ALONE is better than chaos disguised as love.
You can’t manipulate him with silence or win him with temporary affection. He’s built a life that doesn’t need validation, he’s already whole. So when you play games, you’re not confusing him, you’re showing him you’re NOT ready for his love. And the moment he sees you’re wasting his time, he won’t argue, beg, or chase. He’ll WALK AWAY, quietly, gracefully, back to his peace.
He loves by CHOICE, not out of need. And if you’re not adding to his life, he won’t hesitate to SUBTRACT you from it.